The date itself and afterward: Guidelines for Men

Recap: You are now at the restaurant. Now what?

1. Open and close the (car) door for her
2. Walk her to the door
3. Open it (and let her go inside first)
4. When seated, push her chair in
5. If applicable, help her take her jacket off.
6. Talk to her (Without using the word 'like', I know its tough, but try your best :) )
7. No wine or beer (Not until date #2)
8. If your meal comes first, don't start eating until her's arrives.
9. If she does not order desert, don't order any either
10. If she shivers, offer her your jacket
11. It's your responsibility to pay the bill (this includes the tip)

After the date:

1. When leaving: Do the same things you did when you arrived
2. When you drop her, ask her if she enjoyed dinner (If her response is something similar to, "I did. Thank you," then you performed very well.
3. If she leans in to kiss you (not very likely) allow it and don't be forceful or overpowering

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